![Two people shooting a gun and falling from the kickback.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/b02377d/2147483647/strip/true/crop/1800x1200+0+0/resize/2000x1333!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F2a%2Fc1%2Fa879978e4cb09c052185f190b8db%2Fthe-idaho-experience-header-image.jpg)
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![Soon after I moved to (very) rural Idaho from the Bay Area, my "suggested friends" on Facebook began to change.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/48fd231/2147483647/strip/true/crop/1780x2380+0+0/resize/2000x2674!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fd8%2F68%2F216446e148478870f5593f23f41e%2Fla-oe-mahdavian-guns-1.jpg)
![The profile pictures all look exactly the same.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/500283a/2147483647/strip/true/crop/1780x2380+0+0/resize/2000x2674!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F14%2Ff8%2Fc360395c446eacbe2c65e5fd5938%2Fla-oe-mahdavian-guns-2.jpg)
![I asked when he updated his profile photo and said, "If we didn't hunt, we didn't eat." I had never seen that perspective.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/6a20abf/2147483647/strip/true/crop/1780x2380+0+0/resize/2000x2674!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F6c%2F77%2Ff29949b84c6cab402ffc3f6cfb3a%2Fla-oe-mahdavian-guns-3.jpg)
![It's environmental logic. With 4,500 people and the nearest city over an hour away, you use your resources or truck in food.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/b0c1601/2147483647/strip/true/crop/1780x2380+0+0/resize/2000x2674!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Ffd%2F11%2F160f58984849b4ed9910fe83d824%2Fla-oe-mahdavian-guns-4.jpg)
![We owned a shotgun. We saw it as a fun novelty, to shoot when people visited so we could give them the "Idaho experience."](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/03f384c/2147483647/strip/true/crop/1780x2380+0+0/resize/2000x2674!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F82%2F11%2Fd6c26a3f4f0dbce3d436c248da3f%2Fla-oe-mahdavian-guns-5.jpg)
![People express fear of cities because of perceived gun violence. I can't go into a theater after Aurora. It's a city problem.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/d579fdd/2147483647/strip/true/crop/1780x2380+0+0/resize/2000x2674!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F26%2F0d%2Ff2f344a547388f49b3e0b99fa7bf%2Fla-oe-mahdavian-guns-6.jpg)
![Studies show rural areas had a 37% higher rate of firearm deaths than cities, by suicide. We heard the neighbor's suicide.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/928ecab/2147483647/strip/true/crop/1780x2540+0+0/resize/2000x2854!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Ff5%2F4e%2Fb7caaebc416da74084f1af934222%2Fla-oe-mahdavian-guns-7.jpg)
![Three years later, I tried having a new perspective. I learned from talking with hunters and that horrible shot in the night.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/ff34e72/2147483647/strip/true/crop/1780x2380+0+0/resize/2000x2674!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fcf%2F10%2Fd025535d4c77bc725e8f6b5d42aa%2Fla-oe-mahdavian-guns-8.jpg)
![My own perspective changed too. As the "Idaho experience" became real for me, the shotgun stayed in the closet.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/6ac317e/2147483647/strip/true/crop/1780x2380+0+0/resize/2000x2674!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F31%2F20%2F8b85d7d1418681fbd6a6ed5bf144%2Fla-oe-mahdavian-guns-9.jpg)
Navied Mahdavian is a cartoonist and writer. He is a contributor to the New Yorker and author of the graphic memoir “This Country: Searching for Home in (Very) Rural America.”
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